Being kind and adorable never gets you far. It makes you an understanding shoulder, someone that they can come cry to when they need the sleeve you wear your heart on. You don’t have an edge so you don’t have any risk to you or them, thus they will become bored. You can show them politeness and care but eventually they will grow unappreciative and let the compliments, gestures and love fade into anonymity.
There’s never a villain with a collection of heroes to fight, on the good man to battle the slew of the bad. -_-
I don’t want to be cute and nice, I want to be desirable and coveted by some one of which I can return.
The swinging pendulum of sexism arrives! Ladies, Men can get raped too. Remember that.
Just to put some perspective in this for those people who may be confused at how a guy can get a boner but not really be sexually charged, so to speak…
Ladies, you know how your nipples get hard for seemingly no reason (sans stepping into a cold room anyway)? You go to put on a shirt and your nipples are poking out like they haven’t seen daylight in over 40 years? Or you brush them up against something and BAMMO, nipple town? Or someone slaps you in the tits and they’re standing full mister?
You get where I’m going with this? Your sexual organs are built to respond to stimulus, be it one you personally find sexually gratifying or not. Saying a dude who gets a boner while he’s otherwise not consenting to sex is lying about the fact would be like saying any girl who gets wet while getting raped is actually enjoying it/wants it.
so… you know… dont be stupid about this people. guys can get raped too and girls can most definitely be the fuckin perps.
People who think men don’t get raped are just as bad as the people who think men can’t control their urges to rape women. It happens less often, but it still happens, and it’s just as traumatizing for the male victim. You can’t just disregard a victim based on their gender.
Can we also include that females can rape other females and males can rape other males too?
That one time a post on Tumblr about male rape victims didn’t get shit on at all. The only thing anywhere near bad about this is the insistence that men are raped a lot less often, which is incorrect.
The post didn’t say a LOT less often, it says LESS often, and statistically speaking that is still true. And statistics can lie — men will very likely be even less willing to talk about it than women will, so who knows what the actual figures are?
outfit from the valentines meetup ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ muri and I wore matching wing hairclips so we were twin cupids, but later during the meet we went shopping and I found this flower crown that just conveniently went quite nicely with the rest of my coord and I caved in but fortunately roses are also quite valentine-y, right?? T 7 T
I will never not reblog this, because it just gives me so many feels.
This… Is how ever artist is - whether we draw, write or even roleplay… Our characters speak to us, they let us know how they feel, how they think… It’s why I cherish each character I have ever rp’d because… They’ve become a part of who I am. All of the characters I write as… I give life to and that to me is a beautiful thing.
this made me cry
This would make drawing exceedingly depressing tho xD